Healing Yourself With Resonance

by Mark Ivar Myhre on March 25, 2011

I’m in Franklin, TN this morning as I write these words.  Just got here last night.  And tonight, I’ll be hanging out at my sister’s wine bar in downtown Franklin.  It’s called JJ’s Wine Bar.  It’s located on Main Street, just north of the town square, right next to the Baskin & Robbins ice cream store.

If you’re in the area, why not stop in and meet me?  And so you know, I look something like this – http://ivar.info/iphone.jpg

I’ll be the guy sitting all alone, looking wistfully towards the door, hoping you show up…!

Anyway, here’s the main reason I’m writing you today:  As you may have noticed,  things aren’t getting any easier in the world.  In fact, life seems to be getting crazier and crazier.  It’s not your imagination… and it’s not just you.  In a sense, the world really is falling apart.

I’m going to tell you a secret. The way I see it, things are going to get much worse.  This is actually the calm before the storm.  I see things getting much more intense in the next few years.  Actually, starting this year, and continuing for who-knows-how-long.

Basically, it’s becoming more and more important what you think and feel. Why?  Because your thoughts and feelings are going to be amplified more and more.  If you’re scared now, then soon you’ll be way more scared.  If you’re angry now, then you’ll be way more angry.  If you’re feeling a lot of pity now, then you’ll soon be feeling way more pity.

See how it goes?  Whatever’s going on inside you will be ramped up enormously.  That’s what I see coming.  That’s what I’m already seeing.  That’s why it’s more important than ever before that you work on feeling your feelings – cleanly – without telling yourself a story about what it means to feel those feelings.

For example, if I’m scared, then I may say, “Something bad is about to happen, or else I wouldn’t be scared.”  Or, “What if the worst happens?”  Or, “If I’m scared, it means there’s something wrong with me.”  Or it could be any number of statements.  All designed to make sense of the fear.  All designed to explain it away.  All designed to control it.


Look, when fear comes (and it will come!) the best option is to simply open up your heart, and suck the fear up like your heart is a vacuum cleaner.  Just let the fear into your heart, and leave the stories at the door.

Fear means you’re feeling fear.  Okay?  That’s what fear means.  It doesn’t mean the sky is falling.  Feeling fear means you’re feeling fear.  Leave it at that.  If you will simply feel the fear – without the story – then you can ‘ride that wave’ – and let the fear pass right through you.  Let it be a thrill!   The fear will pass.  I promise.  But if you tell yourself stories about the fear, then the fear will not pass.  You’ll stay scared.  Is that what you want?

And this goes for any and all emotions, not just fear.  Anger, hurt, pity, pain… despair… loneliness…  you name it.  Ironically enough, you also need to watch the stories about love and happiness and all those other wonderful feelings that you want to feel.

You don’t want to tell yourself stories about love, either.  Or happiness.  Just feel the feelings!

Here’s what happens:  The more you can open up your heart, and just feel – cleanly – then the more you clear out your emotional pathway.  And the more you clear out your emotional pathway, the easier it is to feel whatever you want to feel.  Believe me, that’s good news.  Especially in these crazy, crazy times.

You do NOT want to be telling yourself stories about what you’re feeling.   (Okay, I think I’ve made my point…!)

Here’s the problem:

When we start feeling ‘bad’ – that’s when we have the knee-jerk reaction to try to control those feelings.

And we control by trying to shut off the flow.

And we shut off the flow by telling ourselves stories.

This isn’t hard to figure out.  It’s obvious. But what isn’t so obvious is the terrible consequences of shutting off the flow of feelings.  Once we start suffering, that’s when we ramp up our efforts to control the flow even more.  That’s when things go from bad to worse.

Now, I understand the overwhelming desire to do something – anything – to feel better.  And I understand it’s not easy at first to just open up your heart and let in the feelings.  For most people, that’s the last thing in the world they want to do.  Because it goes against everything we’ve been taught and conditioned to do, our whole lives.

Any fool knows you have to control your emotions, or they’ll control you.

And I’m saying, if that sage advice doesn’t seem to be working for you, why not try something new?  Open up the flow more, instead of trying to shut it down more.  Feel – cleanly – without interpreting those feelings.

To help you do this, to help you ‘clean out inside’ – I’ve just recorded a new guided meditation.  It’s called ‘Healing Yourself With Resonance’.

You see, resonance can be the problem when you’re just starting to open up to your feelings.  All those stories, all those trapped emotions, they form a resonance.  A very limiting resonance.  And as you may have noticed, it’s almost impossible to escape this resonance once it’s there.

If you’ve got a resonance of anger, or of pity, or of fear…  then you know it’s exceedingly difficult to go beyond that anger or pity or fear.  Or loneliness, despair, pessimism, frustration, franticness… whatever.  It’s hard to ‘just feel better’.

That’s because the resonance becomes more powerful than you.  That’s the nature of resonance.  You can’t just think your way out of it.  You can’t just move beyond it.  And you can’t just escape it.  The resonance is too powerful.

See, you’re always surrounded by resonance. You’re surrounded by your own resonance.  You can’t escape yourself.  But here’s the trick.  There is a way to change it.  It’s the best way I know.  You can change your resonance in a matter of minutes.  And once you change your resonance, you change.  Instantly.  It might be a small change; it might be a big change.  But you will change.

I’ve recorded a meditation that takes you by the hand and guides you – step by step – to not only break apart your current resonance, but also to build a new one – a resonance of your choosing. It can be especially beneficial for when you’re feeling despair or loneliness or frustration.  You know, those really tough feelings that are so hard to end.

But it also works wonders for changing situations out in the world as well.  Such as landing a new job, finding or improving a relationship, or improving your health.  I’ve even used it to end fatigue and end a headache!

But after you do the meditation, keep in mind that all those feelings that were locked up in the resonance will now be released.  Which means you’ll need to feel them and release them, so they don’t end up back in your resonance.

Of course, if you DON’T do the meditation, then things will likely not change at all.

That’s the nature of resonance.  It keeps things the same.  Which is why it’s so vitally important to work with your resonance.

If you’ve found yourself in a tough situation, if the world is getting to you, if you feel stuck in your feelings, then I urge you to give this a try.  Let me prove to you how valuable it is to change your resonance.

It’s only $12 for the complete answer to breaking apart those tough situations – both physical and emotional.  Obviously it’s worth way more than twelve dollars.  But I don’t want money to be an issue here. That’s why it’s priced so low.  Plus, if you don’t like it for any reason, you can get a complete refund.

This is an instant download, so you can get started just minutes from now. Click on the link below to heal yourself with resonance:


I would explain how the meditation goes, but some parts of it are a little complex.  It’s not simple.  That’s why I recorded it onto an audio file.  All you have to do is listen.  I do all the work for you!  Just follow along as it guides you to change your current resonance into a new one.

To get started, click on the link below:


One final point:  this meditation has just been added to the download page of How To Create Your Own Reality.  So if you already have that program, you now have access to this meditation at no extra cost.


Kate March 25, 2011 at 6:36 pm

Awesome recording Mark. Just what I needed in earthquake ridden Christcurch. Thanks so much, I feel so much more peaceful. Amazing technique too by the way. You da man!!

Mark March 26, 2011 at 5:13 pm

Hi Kate,

good to hear from you!

And I’m really glad you like this new meditation – Healing Yourself With Resonance

Martin November 4, 2011 at 10:34 am

Hi Mark,
I was wondering if you get post up a bit more of an explanation of what resonance is? You mention in the blog that “All those stories, all those trapped emotions, they form a resonance. A very limiting resonance. And as you may have noticed, it’s almost impossible to escape this resonance once it’s there”.
I might be missing something but I am not sure what a ‘resonance’ is. I understand resonance in the physics sense i.e. resonant frequencies. I am not sure as applied to emotions.
Your blogs continue to be a good source of learning for me. Thanks for your help.
All the best, Martin

Mark Ivar Myhre November 8, 2011 at 7:20 am

yes, I’ll write more about it.

and I do believe it is very similar to the resonance concept of physics.

but instead of physical components that make up our resonance, they’re non-physical components, such as thoughts and feelings and imagination and so forth.

I’ll write another article about it.

Martin November 9, 2011 at 12:45 pm

Thanks Mark, I’ll keep an eye out for the resonance article.

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